If You are a University Student and Have a Girlfriend, Never Forget These 4 Things
At university level, many boys are already approaching independence in certain ways.
If you are still receiving money from your parents in every way, you are not independent. So you will really have to read this.
If you have a girlfriend while in university it is also foot to have these in mind.
1. Know that she is most likely dependent on her parents for everything too, do not over stretch yourself to impress her with money and end up being broke always. Some have gone on to start stealing or lying to friends and family just to keep a good face and prove they are capable to their campus girlfriend. It is not worth it.
2. While a girlfriend may help with how you relate with the opposite sex, don't ever beat her, don't ever be violent on her. It could lead to a bad blood you may not want to carry to the other part of your life after graduation. If you can't "roll", better part ways in peace not in fight.
3. Don't neglect your academics and other character development because of her. You are first a student before you are a boyfriend for the time being. Excel in your works. Some have spent their energies and time doing assignments for girlfriends, helping them stay up to study at night, while neglecting their own studies. Do not be one of the five foolish virgins in the bible.
4.
Don't be a woman's man or ladies man because you are handsome, any man who succeeds becomes handsome, so don't put necessary pressure on yourself. Succeed.
Finally, In all these if you have one that is a God sent, please treat her well and both of you can excel together, who knows, even "couple up" in the nearest future
Let me stop there for now, I know you know or know some one who needs to hear this, please add your voice and don't forget to share this post.
So on point bro! Bravo✊
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